on a friday nite....

in my room..... this is pure enjoyment....

*smile*

task focus

postnote....
it came with a decision...
decision which hurts me like crazy...

this happened moments ago....
I'm happy with myself
I made my stand clear and not try to by a nice girl, waiting aimlessly hoping that you will make up your mind.

I am happy with myself that I spoke my mind.
I made it clear to you what I want and not let you make the decision
or being wishy-washy can't decide what you want.

and I am happy for myself
for once I made a decision based consideration of me, myself and I
not for someone else, not for making you not feel guilty
I want a closure to things, not left hanging in mid air.

I tag a deadline, an expiry date to it
once it hits, byebye and move on.
this is task focus, without considering feelings,
without the baggage of "Will I hurt You?"

You have an objective, you strategize and you work towards it.

me meme

In the 8 facts about [name], you share 8 things that your readers don't know about you (the dark secret). At the end, you tag 8 other bloggers to keep the fun going. Each blogger must post these rules first. Each blogger starts with eight random facts/habits about themselves. At the end of the post, a blogger needs to choose eight people to get tagged and list their names. Don't forget to leave them a comment telling them they're tagged, and to read your blog...


1. I'm magnet to sucky relationship and still attracting them. My past relationships never cross the 2 yr mark.

2. My clothings are of solid colours, no fancy prints for me

3. I've got tons of friends but only few who are real close to me. My ratio of male female friends is 3:1. Guys are easier to handle I guess, but still I treasure my gfs. They are the ones who lend a listening ear.

4. I'm known as the hardcore drinker among friends... to be honest after a few drinks I get tipsy, I just act sober...If I disappear more than 1/2hr, I'm probably puking in the loo... *shhh*

5. I've got an imaginary friend who is always beside me, being there for me.

6. Many of times people see me as a strong girl who can take care of my own problem. the fact is I'm not. In fact I hide 1 corner, cry and my imaginary frd will comfort me.

7. When I spring clean my room, I merely sweep everything to corners that cannot be seen and call it a day.

8. I'm a princess at home. The chores are taken care of and I dun need to lay a finger on them, so much so that I dunno how to operate a washing machine.

Go on have fun....

planed leave

so I was fumbling what to do with the 17.5days of leave,
Thank goodness I could carry forward 10days to next year (If I'm gonna tender, this will come in handy).

So few days for preparation of exam...long weekend for Deepavali...and 1 week break for my birthday and thats about it...

yesh...my birthday is 2mths away...
Parties? May or may not happen I dunno, but I definitely want a good meal with friends (craving for AMK crabs).

Gifts are still welcome though :) A DVD player to match my new toy will be good :)

and so my work schedule for the next 3mths are pretty fixed... kinda lost excitment

与时并进

now in can!

my new toy

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brand new for SGD400
thanks AntE for persuading me to get the 32inc instead of 26inc...

生命的长短

如果能用计算机来衡量生命的长短有多好
每做一件好事就加一天的寿命
每做一件坏事就减一天的寿命
生命的长短不是用“老”和“病”来定夺

好心，好报

this is the current situation....



alex:
落力为你好得不到分数
你决定要跟他日后同步
他不懂爱惜你我乐意操劳
stephy:
我决意爱他祝我愉快吧
你最明白我痛极亦留下
伤得很重也不怕我愿意等他
alex:
还看着你(他会感动吗)看你在悬崖走路
他却放下你(他已跑掉吗)只照顾自己
stephy:
我惯了爱他你怎样做
在悬崖还是我无退路
*
alex:
对你好无人稀罕我好无人欣赏我好
原来你习惯他一套
从来没有爱我看得清楚我知道
不必得到不妨陪衬但愿为你好
stephy:
他从来都比你差
仍然死心爱他垂头再度听他欺诈
祈求他说爱我为何尚未等到
可能这秒时辰未到
(而明知你爱我我竟扮未知道好人恕我未能做到)
alex:
最受罪也好听听你哭诉
你说难过总比分手更好
stephy:
我说几多的女主角也受过煎熬
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alex:
情况坏到(他也许做到)你信任来年一日
他答应做到(他也许做到)统统都做到
alex stephy:
我也似你的无从劝告
宁愿牺牲都不愿却步
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repeat *
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alex:
你当我是知己我看得到
我当你是一生前途
stephy:
彼此也是沉迷盲目控制不到
alex stephy:
怎么好都等不到
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alex:
怎去做无人珍惜我好无人喜欢我好
原来要学会他一套
从来没有吻过记得清楚我知道
不必得到不妨陪衬但愿为你好
stephy:
好从来都知你好(未够好)
为何他不够好(我不够好)
原来我又与他拥抱
alex stephy:
仍然相信我会有好心得好报
可能到某日会知道

Toilet and Meeting

convenience

after craving for 1 whole mth, I finally found a khaki tonight for 麻辣火锅....
uuuwhhooo!

I'm not particularly a great fan of steamboat but I was craving for something spicy, like REAL spicy, so I thought 重庆麻辣火锅 should be able to do the job.

Steamboat is the best family bonding moments.
Whole family seat around the table, dump their favourites into the pot, and its ready to eat within mins.
A great option for those who cannot make up their mind what to eat or those who are do not have time to spend hrs in the kitchen to prepare a meal.

Buy whatever you like and dump everything inside, even the soup can be bought off the shelf.

I think is also quite a good options for working mum...

"妈咪，今晚吃什么?"

"噢，火锅咯!不用伤脑筋 "

celebrate or mourn?!

huh?! I thought we should be mourning....

poor man...after singing his lungs out, pple are celebrating for his death

as though he is saddam.

enjoy

Enjoying ang moh teh while doing my assignment...without the company of my romanticus neighbour

so you must be wondering how I managed to capture this shot since the right hand is on the mouse... I've got company of "company" :)

另一半

小时候对婚姻的看法很单纯
两个人只要很爱对方就一生一世
结婚，生子，一起终老
爸爸妈妈就是最好的榜样

长大后，开始谈恋爱
很开心，可是从来就没有一个人能让我想要嫁给他
身边的人开始一个个结婚，很为他们高兴
后来那些原本该很幸福的婚姻都已离婚收场
开始觉得结婚到底是什么
是几千几万块的金属锁着第四指和一张了不起的纸让大家认为你们是合法可以有性行为
还是我真的可以跟这个人过完剩下的几十年

我决定还是维持男女朋友比较好
因为所谓的金属和合同其实并没有非常神圣
后来多了很多莫名其妙的“感情”
一些不是真心的感情
我受伤了
不管我在努力，对方还是无动于衷
让我觉得男女朋友的关系已被诅咒了

现在另一半的定义是只要有人陪我就好
不会再作任何努力，因为是不会被心领的
晋升成男女朋友是非也的事
因为是被诅咒的词汇

visiting

lately I found out that I'm being branded as Taiwan-mei in the office, not juz office but other malls as well. hmmm...I took it positively, a place I like mah, so not that bad...

Alena (ping's frd's frd) whom I got to know during my last trip, will be visiting in two weeks time. Coincidentally I'll be travelling but will make it back on 16th to bring her out for dinner.

I told "company" that I was thinking of Lau Pat Sat but was given the face and boo boo. Of coz I know they serve the tourist menu but 老娘 not driving mah...

19 more days till ping's visit... uwhooo I miss her! I hope she brings me my favourite green tea and 玫瑰花茶.

ya lah ya lah I know we recently have it locally. But probably those from Taiwan taste different mah..u know the Taiwan taste?! very difficult to explain and describe hoho...

tiring but enjoyable

I juz finished a 2-day-1-night event for my relaunch and yes I'm dead tired....
the event was great. All the families were very sporting and participated in all the activities. We even got into the Singapore Book of Records - Most Number of People Barbecuing Marshmallow.

Press coverage was great! We've got CNA , TNP and I think the other newsdesk will be covering today.

As usual we have people be here to be seen, but whats new right.

My event company and PR company was indeed a great help. I guess without them and of couse my colleagues, it wouldn't have been a success.

The process was tired but enjoyable :)