no sex no go???

Yeap! Thats how an average unattached male species think...or if not thats how they project themselves to me...

Guy meet girl, guy introduce, guy buy drink, both chat happily with a certain chemistry and exchange number, time to go home, guy offer to send girl "back" with a cheeky grin which translate as one-night-stand, girl reject, poof! Guy disappears into thin air.

Trust me! You will never be able to locate him. IF theres some luck and you might be able to bump into him one day, being a friendly girl, you said hi to him, of coz being a "gentleman" he return your hi BUT with a dirty look.

You scratch you head and you wonder why... Even the Wu La Bo Si in Shi Wan Ge Wei Shen Men dun have an answer for you. Your gfs look lost juz like you are.

So you narrate the incident to them and got the most ridiculous explanation "Because you rejected him! And to think that he wasted one whole night talking to you, gets on his nerves more! You hurt his ego Sayang!" WTF! Thats it?! He got pissed off juz because of that. Ok the 7.5/10 that he scored during the conversation goes down the drain, not forgetting the number stored in your mobile with the pix taken wif the phone, all deleted forever!

Scenes start flashing back....

Eh, I thought he is the one who came forward to introduce himself? I thought he was the one who offer to buy the drinks????

It seems that guys have found the ultimate shortcut to a relationship. Or if not they are too used to having shortcuts in their IT application that they have forgotten the traditional way of opening up program.

So why kick such a big fuss? Doesn't mean that guys made the first move, girls must return the favour.

FYI : Favour = one night stand

Ok ok... maybe what I've juz described was a little way too extreme, but it did happen to yours truly. And as a matter of fact, recently. Appearance totally fit the bill but when the conversation continues, the hands start to do the talking instead.

Come on~ Wats your bloody problem?! Some girls dun go for one night stand. Some girls dun french kiss with any Tom, Dick or Harry on a first date... Even though some girls agreed to the offer doesn't naturally constitute that ALL girls will!

Is our society getting so liberal and so influenced by the west that we skip the usual process of getting-to-know-more-about-each-other but jumping straight into bed? Is skipping a few stages the usual practice today? It seems too hasty to go THAT far when I hardly know you.

Or do guys nowadays judge whether they can get along with this girl with the one-night-shag-judging system. If you dun shag her, she is not gonna to understand you and you guys can never be friends? You need your penis to do the thinking and evaluating process???!!! How sad.

*roll eyes*

Or is it that they are unwilling to pt in extra effort unless they get a shag confirmation. The courtship thumb of rule no longer applies. I have watched guys move on immediately when they are rejected. Romantic dates, long hours chat over the phone, stroll in the park or simply getting well acquainted no longer exists.

Guys! Have you ever thought of what we women truly want? Give us more respect and put in more effort. Go to seduction school if you wanna score! And by score I meant something more complicated than mere sex. Or maybe what I was thinking was juz wishful thinking in this age of 7-11 convenience.

Perhaps that explained why I love watching reality dating show. The passionate wooing, the romantic dinning, the intimate conversation is something women wants. Call me living in dream world or impractical but at least that is the usual dating game all this while. If not, I think traditional match making session should be given a new lease of life.

And by this time, you wished you haven't gave him a 7.5

pui